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I believe grief is a process that involves a
lot of time, energy and determination. I won't "get over it" in a hurt,
so don't rush me!
I believe grief is intensely personal. This
is my grief. Don't tell me how I should be doing it. Don't tell me
what's right or what's wrong. I'm doing it my way, in my time.
I
believe grief is affecting me in many ways. I am being affected
spiritually, physically, emotionally, socially and mentally. If I'm not
acting like my old self, it's because I'm not my old self and some days
even I don't understand myself.
I believe I will be affected in
some way by this loss for the rest of my life. As I get older, I will
have new insights into what this death means to me. My loved one will
continue to be part of my life and influence me until the day I die.
I believe I am being changed by this process. I see life differently.
Some things that were once important to me aren't any more. Some things I
used to pay little or no attention to are now important. I think a new
me is emerging, so don't be surprised - and don't stand in the way.
--- Don't Tell Me ---
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Don't tell me that you understand, don't tell me that you know,
Don't tell me that I will survive, how I will surely grow.
Don't tell me this is just a test, that I am truly blessed,
That I am chosen for this task, apart from all the rest.
Don't come at me with answers that can only come from me,
Don't tell me how my grief will pass, that I will soon be free.
Don't stand in pious judgment of the bonds I must untie,
Don't tell me how to suffer, don't tell me how to cry.
My life is filled with selfishness, my pain is all I see,
But I need you, I need your love, unconditionally.
Accept me in my ups and downs, I need someone to share,
Just hold my hand and let me cry, and say,
"My friend, I really do care."
